Upgrade to hyper 1 and reqwest 0.13

[djc]

This was triggered initially by #t-release > Producing a smaller alternative to `rustc-{version}-src` discussing that there were many copies of OpenSSL included, which led me to wonder whether we could use rustls for some of these. reqwest 0.13 defaults to using rustls for TLS by default.

I also generally think it's better to keep dependencies up to date, including (but not only) because it limits duplicate dependencies.

[djc]

This fails to build aws-lc-sys:

#21 13.84   --- stderr
#21 13.84 
#21 13.84   thread 'main' (1124) panicked at /root/.cargo/registry/src/index.crates.io-1949cf8c6b5b557f/aws-lc-sys-0.40.0/builder/cc_builder.rs:731:9:
#21 13.84   ### COMPILER BUG DETECTED ###
#21 13.84   Your compiler (cc) is not supported due to a memcmp related bug reported in https://gcc.gnu.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=95189. We strongly recommend against using this compiler. 

Dockerfile is building on top of ubuntu:20.04 which is fairly old. See

• Upgrade Docker base to Ubuntu 24.04 #2476

[djc]

This unfortunately (still) results in duplicate reqwest versions, due to

• Pluggable Crypto / Update reqwest 0.13 apache/arrow-rs-object-store#707

[Kobzol]

The changes look simple enough, but at the moment this increases the dependency count from 464 to 488. I'm not sure if it's worth merging it at least until the object_store crate releases a new version.