dkms: upstream update

[qvr]

Port over driver changes from latest upstream release (7.3.0).

The changes seem to be mostly small guards for corner-case scenarios, and moving to new kernel queue_limits API for stacked block devices.

New nonraid branch 6.18 is rebased on top of the latest upstream driver, and the guard checks have been backported to 6.1 and 6.6 branches.

Kernels from 6.11+ will be using the 6.18 branch module. Few compatibility changes were needed:

• A 6.17+ feature needed to be put behind kernel version check: max_hw_wzeroes_unmap_sectors=0 is just a new way to disable write-zeroes on newer kernels, which the old max_write_zeroes_sectors=0 still handles on older kernels
• blk_set_stacking_limits before 6.13 needs setting max_zone_append_sectors=0 separately when disk is missing (being emulated) to avoid kernel warning and for queue limits to be set correctly