Fix SSHOperator templated remote host handling

[fat-catTW]

Fix SSHOperator so a templated remote_host is applied to the SSH hook after template rendering instead of during operator initialization.

Also removes SSHOperator from validate_operators_init_exemptions.txt.

related: #70296

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