refactor(cli): update dev and related cli to use new build server protocol of Zig 0.17

Currently we are parsing the stderr from `zig build` to provide prettier output of error and watch status. 

In Zig 0.17 there  will be a binary protocol to communicate with build system in more reliable way, and we would like to migrate to that.

Zig Build Server Protocol issue: https://codeberg.org/ziglang/zig/issues/35538