Prevent UAF on DER objects, reject API in SNI callback #2394

Job	Run time
v4.3.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_test	8m 41s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark \| extlibc	9m 59s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark	10m 38s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock	8m 20s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test	11m 43s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock \| extlibc	9m 21s
v4.1.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_benchmark	8m 21s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test \| extlibc	7m 39s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test	10m 4s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark	8m 42s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock	10m 5s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark \| extlibc	9m 10s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test \| extlibc	9m 43s
v4.4.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_tls_sock	12m 34s
v4.3.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_benchmark	9m 30s
v4.3.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_tls_sock	8m 30s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark \| extlibc	10m 38s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock	10m 43s
v4.1.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock \| extlibc	7m 58s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_tls_sock \| extlibc	11m 17s
v4.1.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_test	7m 34s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_benchmark	11m 33s
v4.4.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test \| extlibc	10m 30s
v4.4.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_benchmark	11m 13s
v4.3.0 \| native_sim \| wolfssl_test	9m 9s
v4.1.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_tls_sock	8m 19s
v4.4.0 \| frdm_rw612/rw612 \| wolfssl_test	10m 1s
	4h 21m 55s

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