Update lance benchmark dependencies (major) #4125

Job	Run time
check-java-publish-build (aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu, runs-on=27945759090/runner=arm64-medium/imag...	53s
Rust publish dry-run	21s
Python (wheel build)	13m 44s
check-java-publish-build (x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu, runs-on=27945759090/runner=amd64-medium/image...	46s
Compat check / compat-test	3m 2s
	18m 46s

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