Add name filter to metrics

[gabotechs]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes #.

Rationale for this change

Precedes #23720.

While displaying a plan with metrics, allow filtering them by name, not just by category or type.

This is very useful when writing snapshot tests where only a specific metrics needs to be asserted, without other unrelated metrics polluting the snapshot assertion.

Regardless of what happens with #23720, I think this PR is still worth it, as it allows creating some really nice insta tests asserting runtime properties reliably by just cherry picking the runtime metrics relevant for that specific test. This is relevant not only within DataFusion codebase, but also for other people's codebases using DataFusion and relying on insta for snapshot testing, See an example of this here: https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/23720/changes#diff-8281405e117428077c19c07afbbe59fed303a3460096e958f761d34f0899b618

What changes are included in this PR?

While displaying metrics, allows filtering them by name

Are these changes tested?

Yes, by a new small test.

Are there any user-facing changes?

People using the metrics display API will be able to filter metrics by name.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 96.62921% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 80.88%. Comparing base (e8a65f2) to head (403c4d3).
⚠️ Report is 9 commits behind head on main.

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[gabotechs]

I'm opening this one for review, I think it's worth having it regardless of the other PR I'm mentioning in the description. cc @2010YOUY01

[kosiew]

@gabotechs
Looks good overall. I only have one small suggestion that could make the API contract a bit clearer for callers.

[gabotechs]

Thanks @kosiew for the review!