GH-49697: [C++][CI] Check IPC file body bounds are in sync with decod… #6133

Job	Run time
check-labels / Check labels	3s
JNI macOS	29m 31s
ODBC Linux	37m 58s
JNI ubuntu-latest amd64	36m 20s
AMD64 Alpine Linux	42m 30s
AMD64 Ubuntu Large Memory Tests	46m 50s
ODBC debug ARM64 macOS 14	20m 41s
ODBC debug AMD64 macOS 15-intel	39m 24s
AMD64 Ubuntu Meson	51m 52s
AMD64 Debian C++23	16m 22s
ARM64 Windows 11 MSVC / windows	26m 11s
JNI ubuntu-24.04-arm arm64v8	27m 6s
ODBC release ARM64 macOS 14	25m 56s
ODBC release AMD64 macOS 15-intel	55m 41s
ODBC Windows	39m 37s
ODBC release	0s
ODBC nightly	0s
report-extra-cpp	-1s
	8h 16m 1s

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