Fix DuckDB integration failure during out-of-source builds

[UsedByFeiYang]

When performing an out-of-source build (e.g., building in a /build directory), the AliSQL compilation fails because it cannot find libduckdb_bundle.a.
The root cause is a discrepancy between the DuckDB build location and the path defined in CMake:

1. The BUILD_COMMAND in MYSQL_USE_BUNDLED_DUCKDB uses make -C "${DUCKDB_SOURCE_DIR}", which forces DuckDB to be built inside the source tree (extra/duckdb/build/).
2. However, the MY_DUCKDB_LIB variable is defined using ${CMAKE_BINARY_DIR}, which points to the build directory.

This results in the following error during the linking stage of mysqld:
make[2]: *** No rule to make target 'extra/duckdb/build/debug/libduckdb_bundle.a', needed by 'runtime_output_directory/mysqld'. Stop.

Steps to Reproduce:
mkdir build && cd build
cmake .. -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug [other_args]
make

Suggested Fix:
In the CMake file defining MYSQL_USE_BUNDLED_DUCKDB, the MY_DUCKDB_LIB path should be updated to point to the actual output location in the source directory to ensure consistency with the make -C command.

replace
SET(MY_DUCKDB_LIB "${BINARY_DIR}/${DUCKDB_BUILD_DIR}/libduckdb_bundle.a")
to
SET(MY_DUCKDB_LIB "${DUCKDB_SOURCE_DIR}/build/${DUCKDB_BUILD_DIR}/libduckdb_bundle.a")`

Alternatively, the BUILD_COMMAND should be refactored to perform a proper out-of-source build within ${BINARY_DIR}.