🔨 Character recovery and rename feature in lobby

[sruon]

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Describe the feature

Follow-up to #8653

• Add a quick dbtool command to recover deleted char
• Set the renamef flag in lobby if original name is now in use by another PC
• Handle renamef flow in lobby